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I need to keep track of the days i have missed now! Ive become so lazy now but i just never think of something to write about!

So today my siblings and i went to Aunty Wah's house for the traditional CNY visit that happens every year. We ended up spending most of the time there watching RM but subbed in chinese, so i wasn't paying attention most of the time. BUt before that, my uncle and i talked about travelling this year and where we are thinking of visiting. FOR THE very first time, i have something planned with a friend of mine! THe places we want to visit are nearly the same and we plan to travel at the end of this year as a graduation trip. But like always, plans are only plans and im still unsure whether or not it will go to plan! All i know is that both my parents and sister trust this friend of mine and i can basically go anywhere i want! YESS!!! She's also very flexible about where we go because she has nearly visitied all the places i want to visit. THATS EVEN MORE EXCITING!!!

Now the second question comes to WHERE i will get the money from. From working at woolies, i have been able to save up a bit...and i think its about time i go on a trip myself and spend a bit of it! My uncle asked me why i dont ask my parents to fund me...well if i am capable of paying with my own money then why ask my parents? Because i know they will give me a bit of spending money as well since i will be visiting relatives and although i am a guest visiting, i think i still should pay for some meals! But either way...i dont know why people keep on saying that i should use my parents money...if i have a job even if it is a casual job i dont want to burden my parents further. They've spent half of the life looking after us and in turn...we should continue to spend their money? I dont know why but when it comes to these topics about spending my parents money for my own entertainment purposes when i have some sort of income, is wrong. It all comes down to different values we each hold and i can't actually say what is wrong or right actually...it is simply..what i value is rather different to what others value.

Either way, nothing is really planned right now, but i DO WANT to do something and i hope it works out!!! Im actually excited just thinking about it! :D